TMI Tuesday - July 22, 2014
Can we talk... relationships?
1. What's the first thing that pops into your mind when you see an attractive person?
Hard to answer because I get caught up in attractive vs. attraction. If we are talking nice looking I might study the features that I think make them attractive. If I sense sex appeal, I take that in and admire it. I once read that [heterosexual] men see an attractive woman and immediately think "I want to fuck her or I wonder how she is in bed."
2. What is your idea of a dream date? Describe the person and the type of date experience.
Someone who is intelligent, interesting, worldly and an excellent conversationalist. Who can take an interest in my views as well as be open and informative on his own viewpoints. A snazzy dresser would be the cherry on top. It should go without saying but it is VERY important to me so I will say it--good hygiene. The date should include a leisurely dinner where we talk, laugh, and joke. I don't care if the date is a day of hiking, a night of dancing or a performance art show.
3. How many serious relationships have you had? Were you in love?
I won't count high school boyfriends...lol. Four maybe five serious relationships. I was in love once.
4. How many casual sexual relationships have you had?
Good heavens too many to count. And I am talking relationships, not just flings or one-offs. Or should I count those too?
5. What will ruin a relationship for you?
Bonus: What is your definition of sexy?
Too too hard to define though I find women sexy more often than men. The underlying component of all people I find sexy is an air of confidence. Yes, confidence is sexy.
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