TMI Tuesday - March 11, 2014
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1. Laughter: What makes you laugh?
ANS: So many things. In general smart humor.
Oh and this...
2. Anger: This past week, who or what really pissed you off? What happened?
ANS: No one really pissed me off this past week. I am sure there were some annoyances--idiot store clerks, horrible DC metro area drivers.
3. Fear: What phobia did you have but overcame?
ANS: Fear of swimming in the ocean.
I grew up swimming like a little fish, and I had taken swimming lessons when I was like 3 or 4 years old. Every summer my family would spend time at the ocean, and I loved the water. Fast forward to me at age 17. I was out on the Chesapeake Bay with friends. They were crabbing, I was just along for the boating. I jumped from the boat to take a swim. Nothing out of the ordinary. For a bit, I played in the water but one time when I came up the boat was not where I thought it should be. I turned and the boat was quite far away. I was puzzled as to how it got so far away from me or I from it! I panicked. I began swimming back to the boat but because I was already in a panicked state, with my heart racing, my swimming seemed slow and clunky and I thought I wouldn't make it to the boat. I thought I was going to drown. I did make it back to the boat. My friends helped me into the boat and they saw I was a little scared. That incident made me afraid to go in the water--pool, ocean--anything but a bathtub. I missed the water, so, in my sophomore year of college I signed up to take swimming class. Taking basic swimming lessons (again) got me over my fear and I was swimming like a fish again in all bodies of water.
4. Surprise: Recently, what unexpected act or behavior did you experience in your sex life?
ANS: Recently MEL (my Estonian lover) was in town. The fact that he was in the States was a great surprise. We spent the week together. Our first night together of sex was mind-blowing. He made me orgasm several times and squirt a lot! TMI: I soaked the sheets and a pillow he had put beneath my hips. The next morning he said to me, "Last night was a pleasurable experience." *swoon, melt, moisture!* Who's he tellin'?!
5. Trust: Many on-going relationships have a certain predictability about them. Does that certainty translate into trust?
ANS: No the predictability or assuredness that one gets from a steady relationship hardly translates into trust in my experiences. You hope that you can trust someone that you know long-term but two are not congruent.
6. Excitement: Who do you excite?
ANS: I love this question (which is why I put it here...lol). I would say that I excite MEL. One of the times I went to his place, I was told to let myself in. I walked in the door, MEL appeared from the kitchen and when he saw me he flashed a big, glorious smile that could light the world. That made me feel fantastic! Too, he always wanted to make an early evening of it so we could get to bed...and not for sleeping.
Bonus: What intimate activity do you share with your partner, something that is meaningful to your relationship? For example Sunday breakfast in bed, cooking, maintenance spanking, etc.
ANS: When I was with KinkyGent it was many things--lap time being the most cherished by me. When I was with the Captain, it was ANR.
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